"Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." -Proverbs 22:6
"The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him." -Proverbs 23:24
"Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." Ephesians 6:4
Fatherhood is not easy. If it seems that way, wait five minutes. It's a simple fact that being a father carries with it a great degree of difficulty, no matter how you slice it.
Think about it: if a man chooses to walk out on his kids -- as has happened with astonishing and appalling regularity in our modern world -- he carries with him a lifetime of guilt, whether he knows it or not. He shoulders the responsibility for how his kids turn out, and statistics show that it is not likely to end well for those children as they reach adulthood. Assuming they get there at all.
If a man accepts his responsibility as a father but chooses to raise his kids in a home without God, he is not likely to receive much in the way of Holy help. God is funny like that: tell him you want to do it on your own, either by explicitly turning your back on Him or ignoring the signs that show beyond doubt that He is real, He is powerful and He loves you, and He will let you give it your best shot. And the man that chooses this path is going toil endlessly, working his fingers to the bone, generally being the greatest Hell-bound man anyone could ever meet. And all that to end up turning out some well-meaning young adults who know little or nothing about the salvation of Christ. You know that whole thing about the road to Hell being paved with good intentions?
And if a man chooses to raise his kids in a Godly home, accepting and embracing his role as the head of his household, and has the support of a Christian wife who also embraces her role in the home, he -- and she, and they -- will face attacks from Satan at every turn, trying to find some way to throw that wonderful home into godless disarray. He will be attacked himself, and will have "only" prayer in his arsenal while he watches his children face their own endless flood of attacks.
And, when it is all said and done, he is quite likely to turn out a new generation of Godly men and women.
Three distinct choices. Three distinct outcomes. But there's one little catch: only one of them has an eternal reward.
